Friday, March 7, 2014

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - THE RULES OF NARCISSISM


The narcissist is always the center of the world - theirs and everyone else's.

What ever goes wrong is everyone else's fault.

Their ability to see the harm they cause is virtually non-existent.

If anyone calls them on their behavior, the narcissists' ability to turn the tables and blame the other person is nothing short of miraculous!









DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS           

An opportunity to experiment with some fun
ideas...

4 WAYS TO SURVIVE NARCISSISTIC ENCROACHMENT:

*Give up!  They will not see your point of view.

*Validate your own self! 
 You won't get it from them - not unless it                  serves their purpose. 

*If you have to be around them, find a way to minimize their impact.

*Remember you can not out manipulate them - they are world champions of this art.


Here's a 'mind-exercise' straight from the pages of Alice in Wonderland:

Imagine this person standing in front of you
See them clearly in your mind's eye

Now make them very big - so big that they take up the entire room
Larger and larger until they finally POP!

And now shrink them down to a tiny size.

See them talking and zipping around in their shrunken state

Breathe deeply and let yourself get the message…








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