How many times have you walked down the same street expecting to see totally different views?
How often have you created the same interactions expecting totally different results?
Not too logical, right?
And yet we seem to be stuck in this pattern of behavior.
Particularly striking is the way we react when we get those truly predictable results: Surprised!
Want some examples?
Choosing the same types of people to get involved with.
Using trigger words and being surprised when we trigger the same reaction those words triggered last time we used them.
Ignoring negative warning signs and being surprised when the negative occurs…
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
LOOK FOR PREDICTABLE!
Make a list of some of the repetitions in your life that make you unhappy, include:
Specific types of interactions with people
Personality types that you get involved with
Asking for help from people who can't give it
Expecting totally different reactions from people than their usual
Using 'trigger' words with people with a 'hair trigger'
What happens as you explore this?