SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - DEALING WITH 'GIMMIE-MEISTERS'

How is it possible to be a world class annoyingly difficult person and not know it?  

And even more to the point how is it that these people get away with it time and time again?

These difficult people seem to have a knack for surrounding themselves with others they can manipulate - especially those whose responsibility and guilt buttons are easily pushed…

DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS           

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4 STEPS TO UN-HOOK FROM THE 'GIMMIE-MEISTERS'

*How are they hooking you in?  Do they say or do something - or even make promises - that make you feel obligated?

*Ask yourself what your 'button' is.  This might be an overdeveloped sense of responsibility - are you trying to save the world?  Think you can?

*What gets triggered in you when they push your buttons?  Guilt, maybe?  Do you have it better than they do?

*What keeps you in 'the game'?  Do you feel righteous?  Needed?  Smarter than they are?  

These 'secondary gains' can trip us up.  If we are not aware of them, we lose our ability to make choices!

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