Friday, January 16, 2015

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - THE VALUE OF A GOOD SQUIRM

What's a squirm moment?

The opposite of being in your comfort zone.

Check out this definition:
Squirm:  Wriggle or twist the body from side to side especially as a result of nervousness or discomfort…
Synonyms:  Wriggle, slither, slide, flounder…

Why do you think this might be valuable?

Here's  a hint - these moments of discomfort, uncertainty and open-endedness are the very times that our change receptors are the most sensitive and our blocks to transformation are the least formidable…

So, while our natural inclination is to shy away, another way of approaching these moments is to embrace the opportunity!



DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS           
An opportunity to experiment with some fun
ideas...

EMBRACING THE SQUIRM…

Interestingly a lot of new learning is predicated on the squirm moment! And often the more a person embraces the experience the greater the result…


Let yourself feel the squirm - it's not necessarily bad!

Tell yourself that it is okay to be uncomfortable in a situation - this type of discomfort is an important aspect of new learning.

Breathe into the experience - we have a tendency to hold our breaths when we feel squirmy!

Try some fun visualizations - maybe see yourself as a silk worm starting to squiggle its way out of its restrictive cocoon…

Imagine the squirm turning into a dance…

Movement is the name of the game - to squirm is an attempt to find a new position …


 




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