Sounds like one of those Zen sayings, right?
But think about this:
Life and everything that goes with it really is simple… but it sure
ain't easy!
And yet…and yet…
We want and constantly look for easy.
While most solutions are quite simple and often obvious, the problem
that we face is that following 'simple' is often time consuming and labor
intensive.
So we tend to eschew that path and instead look for what we assume will
get us there without all the effort…
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to
experiment with some fun ideas...
Think about some
problems that face you.
Now imagine that you
could see the simplest and most direct path to solution…
Here's a story to
illustrate this one:
A friend's behavior
gets nasty and abusive. You take some
steps to 'fix' the situation but nothing changes and the abuse continues.
The simple solution:
Allow yourself to feel the sadness that comes with a loss of a long time
friendship and walk away.
Simple, yes,
but not easy as you have to deal with difficult feelings.
The complex solution:
Turn yourself inside out continuing to attempt to fix it.
You try to fix
yourself - you try to fix your friend - you try to pretend nothing happened -
you lie about what happened - you blame the other person… or yourself… Now,
while this way of dealing with events might seem easier, in reality what you
are stuck with is an on-going mess!
Can you relate to
this fandango?
Can you allow your life
to go in the direction of 'simple'?
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