So, what do we expect when we ask 'how are you'?
Something to make us feel better?
The answer is often "fine" because it's easy and a way to deflect attention…
Then there are the times in our lives when someone asks us and we feel rebellious -and angry - and reply darkly:
"Since you asked…"
"Do you really want to know…"
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
Before asking someone who has gone through a tough time how they are, think about what you really want to communicate and your level of relationship with that person!
Which ones would you check?
o best friend
o casual acquaintance
LEVEL OF CARING
WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO COMMUNICATE
o I care
o I'm available as a sounding board
o I'm trying to figure out something about myself
o I'm into my snoop role
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