Ever been in a totally sequential, logical, understandable conversation with someone and all of a sudden find yourself left in the dirt wondering what happened?
Where did they go and where did that conversation take such a radical turn…
I was talking to my logical, compassionate, very mature friend and suddenly… Whoa! I was clueless!
What happened? She was ranting and raving, arms flailing… And then it hit me! SHE MORPHED!
This was her 3 year old self throwing a total hissy fit! OMG
I could see the image. And it changed everything. Instead of feeling confused and stressed and perhaps like I did something wrong, I started to laugh...
Quietly, of course.
And then there was another recent time:
A friend came to help me with a minor problem and as he was leaving - too far down the hall for me to respond - he turned around and got a totally squinty-eyed, evil look on his face and made a very nasty comment…
This time I got it right away! SHAPE SHIFTER! LIZARD MAN!
And again, instead of getting caught in the melodrama I smiled in delight…
Hey, I don't like scaly things with those long yucky tongues, but at least I don't blame myself for the way they act!
What do ya say?
Can you see how recognizing the morph can help you create a healthy separation between what's yours and what isn't?
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