Words and how we use them are so
important.
For instance, the word 'should' can
be highly toxic!
Ever notice, how, when someone
'shoulds' you, your reaction is often of the knee-jerk variety?
"You should do x" almost
always yields y!
And "You should not do x"
almost always makes x irresistible.
'Should' no matter how well intended is a Bully word and
most of us do not react well to being bullied!
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
"Up yours," I screamed as I
shot myself in the foot…
Sound familiar?
How many times
do you think you have harmed yourself by reacting rebelliously to bullying?
Think about all
the times someone has scolded you about what you are doing. What were they complaining about?
Did the 'problem'
get better or worse?
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