SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - HOOKED?

Why do we get hooked into high maintenance people?

There seems to be something in our culture that equates difficult with high value! 

We have been taught that if we have to jump through hoops to get something (someone) we have attained a great prize. 

We also get hooked in by our own sense that WE can tame the wild horse - that we are so special that only we can please this highly challenging other…

  

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ARE YOU HIGH MAINTENANCE?  KNOW SOMEONE WHO IS?

What makes people high maintenance? 

Here's a list - check the ones that sound familiar.

_Their world view is lop-sided - they see only their side.

_Their demands are inconsistent and arbitrary.

_They constantly demand 'feeding'.

_They are moody.

_They punish.

_They have strong internal bullies - which they use on others!

_They expect more from others than they give - and tend to see it the other way around.

How many of these did you check?

For your self?

For someone else?

                      
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