SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - GETTING IT RIGHT!

People often report being totally in the dark about what to say to others going through difficult times.

Their struggle with finding the 'perfect' thing to say often leads them to stall or even disappear just when those others need them most.

Somehow we have been led to believe that we should know exactly the right thing to say - and that those perfect words which will make everything better really do exist - if only we could find them!

DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS           

An opportunity to experiment with some fun

ideas...

FINDING THE RIGHT THING TO SAY IN 4 EASY STEPS

Step 1 - GET REAL.  If you are looking for words that will take away someone else's suffering - they don't exist!

Step 2 - DON'T TRY TO SOUND WISE.  Annoying, annoying, annoying!

Step 3 - DON'T OFFER ADVICE.  If someone asks you for it - great!  Otherwise - annoying, annoying, annoying!

Step 4 -  AND THE MAGIC WORDS ARE:  "I am thinking about you.  If there is anything I can do I am here." 

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