Why do people tell us to calm down?
Simple: They don't want to hear it or deal with it!
So, is it okay for them to say: 'Don't yell at me'?
As long as they add that it's about them and not you.
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Sitting on anxiety (anger!) = added stress!
So, what to do?
Find a 'voice', a way of acknowledging what you are feeling without 'sliming' those around you - even if you think it's their fault!
Yelling is pretty toxic and usually won't get good results - unless you see an bug, snake or maybe even a bear…
Saying 'OMG this is a disaster' is fine.
You get the drift!