Why do we so often respond to other peoples' problems by lecturing them?
Do we really think that we know the answers for them?
Or maybe we are just imitating an M.O. we learned from our parents?
Do we like being lectured?
Do we take in advice delivered in this manner?
Is lecturing ever useful? Almost never!
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
THINK ABOUT THE LAST TIME YOU LECTURED SOMEONE OR WERE LECTURED BY THEM…
What do you think was the motivation:
Trying to be helpful?
Relieving your own anxiety?
Dealing with your own anger and stress?
Indirectly working out your own 'stuff'?
Copying learned behavior?