There are things we've needed and wanted… and didn't get.
Obviously, we're not talking about those wrapped holiday gifts...
Was it our fault we didn't get what we needed?
Something defective in us?
Or was it about those others - usually mothers and fathers, siblings, even teachers - and their own defective 'giving' gene?
And how do we find the balance? The healthy, full place for us?
What do ya say?
The holidays, and certainly the New Year, are interesting times to think about this, right?