Step #1 in dealing with bullies is recognizing their behavior
for what it is - abusive and really
unnecessary!
Sometimes we confuse ourselves by making excuses for the bully
or thinking their manner is okay since they mean well…
THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE!
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
RECOGNIZING BULLY BEHAVIOR
Check out their:
Voice - Harsh and loud? Too quiet and whispered? Threatening?
Posture - Too close? Rigid?
Looming?
Attitude - Dismissive? Rude?
Curt?
Check out how you feel:
Belittled? Talked
down to? Pushed? Backed into a corner?
Scolded?
No second guessing
yourself!
Remember that old saying: 'If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck…'
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