Wednesday, September 27, 2017

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - SEE IT FOR WHAT IT IS!

Step #1 in dealing with bullies is recognizing their behavior for what it is - abusive and really unnecessary!

Sometimes we confuse ourselves by making excuses for the bully or thinking their manner is okay since they mean well…

THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE!


DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS                           
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
RECOGNIZING BULLY BEHAVIOR

Check out their:
Voice - Harsh and loud?  Too quiet and whispered? Threatening?
Posture - Too close?  Rigid?  Looming?
Attitude - Dismissive?  Rude?  Curt?

Check out how you feel:
Belittled? Talked down to? Pushed?  Backed into a corner? Scolded?

No second guessing yourself!  
Remember that old saying:  'If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck…'






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