No matter what you assume, your words do affect others!
They can accept what you say, or reject it but either way the
other person has to use their energy to deal with your output.
We tend to be pretty insensitive to our impact on those around
us and the less we pay attention the more harm we can do, and the less we
understand what comes back at us!
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
PICKING UP THE SIGNS…
Five clues to negative impact:
1)
Body language - Crossed arms? Raised shoulders? Clenched fists?
2)
Voice - Too loud? Too low? Too high pitched?
3)
Facial changes - Looking away? Staring? Muscle tightness? Twitches?
4) Physical
distance - Moving away? Standing too close? Leaving the room?
5) Continued contact - Avoidance?
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