We teach our children to be 'fair' - it seems like a good idea - connected to sharing and equality and all those positive concepts.
It turns truly toxic when we start to believe there is this measurement called 'fair' that dictates what we deserve…
And, of course, the true emotional blow comes when what actually happens in our lives doesn't seem 'fair'.
We measure our allotment - how many goodies do we get compared to 'X' and how many difficulties we suffer compared to 'Y'…
And if we are really into this concept it's almost always 'not fair'!
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…
THINK ABOUT IT: HAVE YOU EVER MET ANYONE WHO REALLY THINKS WHAT THEY GET IS 'FAIR'?
CAN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW BUYING INTO THIS CONCEPT CREATES UNHAPPINESS?
WHAT DO YOU THINK WOULD HAPPEN IF YOU LET GO OF 'FAIR'?