Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 21, 2016

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - FINDING BALANCE

Here's today's question:  When do patience, persistence, and determination morph into stubbornness?

How do we mark that boundary between hitting our heads against the wall and giving up too soon?

An interesting and important question, right?
On the one side strength, on the other side rigidity…



DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS                           
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…

FEEL THE DIFFERENCE!

Here's an interesting way of thinking about these feelings:

Persistence, patience and determination have a certain 'color' and 'sound' - a feeling of 'Yes!
Stubbornness is a different 'color'.

Can you let yourself experience that difference?

Imagine giving a color to each of these emotional states.  
What would it be?

Now imagine giving them a sound.  
Try this until you hit something that feels right.  
Try humming it. 

The idea is that the sound or color becomes almost automatic, and gives you an emotional heads up.


The goal is to help you experience when you shift from healthy and strong to rigid and stultifying.


Tuesday, September 20, 2016

I'LL GET IT!

I'm sitting in the doctor's waiting room when an elderly, clearly handicapped man drops a wrapped toothpick on the floor.

"I'll get it!" I scream as he totters back and forth honing in on that tiny sliver.


He clearly does not want help and I watch hypnotized as his body weaves and wobbles slowly, very slowly, getting closer and closer to his goal.


Whoa!

What do ya say?
Is this a lesson in persistence and patience, or what?