Check out this story:
"She was a really rotten mother and my husband can't believe I still talk to her… but I do it for me.
"She was a really rotten mother and my husband can't believe I still talk to her… but I do it for me.
I know it sounds weird, but I needed to find
a way to get rid of the pain she caused.
And amazingly, when I watch her with
our baby, how loving she is, somehow I feel like I'm receiving that love too…"
Here's another one:
"He was an awful father, a real
bully - demanding, and mean.
Now he's in his 80's and at first I felt
really bitter about all the help and support he needs and never gave to me…
But when I'm with him, I am conscious
of giving him what I wanted him to give me throughout all those years growing
up - love, support, kindness...
It amazes me, but somehow
giving it to him now is slowly shifting all that old pain and closing the wounds…"
What do ya say?
Does this make sense
to you?
