Showing posts with label names. Show all posts
Showing posts with label names. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING – DO YOU LIVE IN A BOX?


Labels are endemic in all societies.  Perhaps because the categories they create help us sort reality?

We know what to expect when we say:

He’s old
She’s crippled
He’s mentally ill
She’s fat…

By categorizing people in this way we set up expectations – and then, sadly, sometimes miss anything that doesn’t fit into the box!








DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS

An opportunity to experiment with some fun
ideas...


What are some of the boxes you live in?  Who created these boxes for you? 


Make a list of 5 words you use to label yourself.

Can you remember the first time you thought, “Oh, I’m__________”

What do you imagine would happen if you gave up these labels?


Here’s a fun experiment to try:

Think about one of your labels – it might have to do with:
           
            Intelligence
            Appearance
            Age
            Infirmity
            Personality…

Now imagine writing these words on a gigantic sheet of white paper.  (yes, paper!  Not your electronic devise!)

Now see the image that goes with the words.  Both words and image are in black – very black – ink.

As you stare at the paper - breathing deeply – the ink begins to fade…

Keep breathing and watch it become grey…

How do you feel as this happens?

You can stop this operation at any stage you want – OR NOT!

If you’re ready, allow the word – and the image that goes with it – to fade completely…


Now you are faced with a pristine, totally open sheet of paper.

What do you consciously want to put on it?
           




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Tuesday, September 17, 2013

WHAT’S IN A NAME? THE POWER OF LABELS


They used to diagnose lots of people with heart murmurs. 
Recently I heard something really fascinating…

“Well,” the doc was explaining in this symposium, “previously we thought there was only one basic rhythm and everything else was abnormal…”

“Now we realize that there is more than one healthy heart rhythm…”

Now think about this!

Imagine if all school teachers realized that there were actually many different learning rhythms…

And that the kids labeled learning disabled and dyslexic were actually just dancing to a different rhythm?  Whoa!




I heard another man, who had been diagnosed as dyslexic, talk about his skills at conceptualizing 3 dimensional space. 

He was smart enough to have ignored all those labels – and today is an amazingly successful architect!


The moral of this story:  Don’t let the labels box you in!





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