Showing posts with label revenge. Show all posts
Showing posts with label revenge. Show all posts

Friday, July 1, 2016

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - REVENGE?

Anger is a very intense emotion with a strong kinetic energy whap behind it…

To deal with anger in a healthy way we need to acknowledge what we are feeling and create a non-toxic outlet for that energy.

Revenge is one of the twisted ways we've learned to funnel anger. 

Twisted because in this modality we use our energy to focus on another person and what they actually have done to us - or what we imagine they have done…

A much healthier choice is to use that strong anger energy to create forward momentum in our own lives rather than wasting it on someone else….




DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS                           
An opportunity to experiment with some fun ideas…

ANGER AND IMAGINATION

Allow yourself to play with the concept of anger…
How?  Here's a fantasy to try:

Imagine you are a powerful bow with tremendous strength and force.  
Now feel the pull of the arrow… aim towards a destination and let fly! 
Can you feel the power of your energy as you do this?  
Imagine using this same power to reach a goal.







Thursday, June 30, 2016

DON'T GET MAD…

Ever hear this one:
'Don't get mad, get even!'

Of course you have.

It's very pervasive in our culture.
But think about it…

First of all, what's wrong with feeling angry?


And secondly, Yikes!

'Getting even' means your energy is focused on that other guy's game.

What do ya say?
Is that where you want your focus to be?