Despite many warnings to the contrary throughout our
lives -
"If
you do that, you'll…"
"If
you say that you'll…"
"If
you act that way…"
- we still often seem to experience what we do as discreet
segments of behavior rather than part of a chain reaction.
How many times do we wonder why someone acted in a
certain way or something happens to us, not recognizing the impact of our previous
steps in the dance?
DANCE WITH IT! EXPERIENTIAL APPS
An opportunity to
experiment with some fun
ideas...
Think about something that has puzzled you in the past - someone else's
behavior towards you or an event that happened that seemed to come out of
nowhere. It could be this week, or
sometime this past month, or even further into the past if it's still on your
mind.
Now imagine that you are a detective and you were hired to discover how
the event in question has come about.
* As a detective you look for clues that led up to the moment of the
'crime'.
* You look for the 'he said, she said' that occurred the day of the
incident, the day before, the week before.
* Your task is to track - but not blame - THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT!
Objectivity is the name of the game. Drop the judgmental attitude and just investigate!
Have some fun with your new role...
The goal is for you to come to an "Ah ha! Now I get it"
moment.
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