Showing posts with label SELF APPRECIATION. Show all posts
Showing posts with label SELF APPRECIATION. Show all posts

Friday, September 26, 2014

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - NAVIGATING LIFE'S SPEED BUMPS…

Random, perhaps, but those 'measuring moments' can also be useful. (Check out Wednesday's post)

True, if you allow them to trigger your inner Bully - "scold, scold, scold"-  they create pain. 

If however you use them as moments to non-judgmentally review where you are, what you have accomplished and where you want to go next - remember the mini- steps - then they can be invaluable times of reflection, renewal and re-direction!






DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS           
An opportunity to experiment with some fun
ideas...

HOW TO USE YOUR SPEED BUMPS

1)  Stop - breathe and think evaluation NOT de-valuation!

2)  Remember whereever you are right now has value - use it to learn and stretch!

3)  Count Coup - Be honest about what you have accomplished! 
Maybe you've taken the road less traveled?  Yay you!

Where have you been?
What have you done?
Who have you learned from?

4)  Give yourself - right where you are now - at least 5 appreciations.  This is really important!









Friday, August 29, 2014

SERIOUSLY SPEAKING - BEING REAL

Nothing illustrates being real - living life with worn off feathers and worn down edges - as beautifully as the story of The Velveteen Rabbit, first published in 1922. read the story 

For those of you who might have forgotten, here's the story:
A stuffed rabbit sewn from velveteen is given as a present to a small boy and the becomes the boy's favourite toy.  
Time passes, and the rabbit becomes shabbier, but happy.
One day, the boy becomes sick with scarlet fever, and the rabbit sits with him as he recovers. Afterwards, the doctor orders that his room should be disinfected, and all his toys burnt - including the velveteen rabbit.
The rabbit is left out in the garden overnight, where he sadly reflects on his life with his boy. The toy rabbit cries and a real tear drops onto the ground, and a marvellous flower appears.
A fairy steps out of the flower and comforts the velveteen rabbit, introducing herself as the nursery magic fairy. She says that because he is old and shabby and Real, she will take him away with her and "turn [him] into Real" - to everyone.
The fairy takes the rabbit to the forest, where she meets the other rabbits and gives the velveteen rabbit a kiss. The velveteen rabbit changes into a real rabbit, and joins the other rabbits in the forest.

For us, the moral of the story is that we each need to be our own magic fairy and recognize and appreciate the beauty we bring to the world even when we are missing a few feathers!






DANCE WITH IT!   EXPERIENTIAL APPS           
An opportunity to experiment with some fun
ideas...

HOW DO WE TAP INTO OUR INNER BEAUTY?

MAKE A LIST OF THE ATTRIBUTES YOU APPRECIATE ABOUT YOURSELF.

These might include:
          Your sense of humor and ability to laugh
          Your compassion for other humans
          Your love of other animals
          Your street smarts
          Your love of learning
          Your ability to keep learning and evolving
Now write these down on a big post-it note

NEXT FIND SOME THINGS ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE YOU LIKE.

These might include:
          Your sparkly eyes
          A good smile
          Teeth…
You get it, right?
Now write these down on another post-it

POST THESE NOTES ON YOUR BATHROOM MIRROR AND READ THEM EACH TIME YOU FACE THAT MIRROR!  YOU MIGHT WANT GIVE YOURSELF A SMILE AND A WINK AS YOU DO THIS…






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